This list is designed to be a quick check for you to review. Use it to give you ideas to maintain your relationship, to give it a positive boost or just simply for some ideas. Print this list off and give it to your partner and then take turns each on fulfilling what each other wants.
- 1. Hug him.
- 2. Write a love note.
- 3. Call him at work just to say “Hi.”
- 4. Give him a foot massage.
- 5. Tell him a joke.
- 6. Caress him with slow gentle strokes.
- 7. Go for a walk with him.
- 8. Admit your mistakes.
- 9. Say: “I love you.”
- 10. Indulge a whim.
- 11. Listen to him talk about an interest of his.
- 12. Be trustworthy.
- 13. Instead of complaining, tell him what you would prefer.
- 14. Look at him when you’re in a discussion.
- 15. Send him flowers. (They’re not just for us girls.)
- 16. Compliment something he did.
- 17. Offer to help.
- 18. Ask him to show you how to do something.
- 19. Write him a poem about how special he is to you.
- 20. Ask him what he’d like sexually.
- 21. Take an afternoon drive.
- 22. Go away together for a weekend holiday.
- 23. Do something he wants to do.
- 24. Listen to him (even if he is boring you.)
- 25. Plan a candle light dinner.
- 26. Look at old photos together.
- 27. Serve him breakfast in bed.
- 28. Take a shower together.
- 29. Share sexual fantasies.
- 30. Do a work project together.
- 31. Give him an all over body massage.
- 32. Plan a picnic lunch.
- 33. Repeat what he says before answering.
- 34. Send him a card.
- 35. Surprise him with a gift.
- 36. Cook his favorite meal.
- 37. Put on some romantic music.
- 38. Put together a compilation tape of both your favorite songs.
- 39. Ask for his opinion.
- 40. Ask him how he feels.
- 41. Let him know when you are proud of him.
- 42. Invite him to a secret rendezvous.
- 43. Listen openly to his opposing opinion.
- 44. Watch his favorite TV program with him.
- 45. Watch a sunset together.
- 46. Play a game together.
- 47. Have him teach you something he knows.
- 48. Go to a movie of his choice.
- 49. Meet him for lunch.
- 50. Let him know you care.
